Accusations of racism - Eh, this is so annoying.π₯Ί
So annoying, in fact, that I hesitated to even share this issue with you.
I genuinely believe Iβm the last person who should be accused of racism. I respect all our girls and customers, no matter where they come from.
Like many clubs, we have quite a few girls from Africa, especially Nigeria. Most of them are great β cool, hardworking, and professional. But whenever thereβs a problem β literally any time I have to deal with a conflict involving them (whether itβs issues with other girls or complaints from customers) β the same line comes up:
"Hey Kathy, this isnβt fair, you know itβs racism, donβt you?"
WTF? No, itβs not! Do your job, Iβm doing mine β donβt try to shift the blame by accusing me of being racist. Thatβs just low.
If I wanted to be racist, I could point out that a large portion of theft complaints tend to involve girls from Africa. Is that just a coincidence? Maybe, maybe not. But I donβt make generalizations, and I donβt accuse anyone without cause. Still, itβs no surprise I get more and more frustrated every time I hear the βitβs racismβ excuse.
I treat all the girls the same way β fairly and professionally. But the truth is, different people try different tactics to manipulate or deflect responsibility. And unfortunately, some use accusations of racism to do that.