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PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Single women are not happier than married women

PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Single women are not happier than married women

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Content like the this is why I’m still subscribed to you. Politely, a lot of your videos haven’t packed the same punch but this video offered some really useful information and perspective.

Thomas Owen

Women need men. I have empathy for women. Today’s culture teaches them to think short term. Women, however, cannot be alone without being lonely. Men can.

Eric Linden

@Peter - Gotcha. 👍

Joseph Omega

Mack T - Here is another very popular "red-pill" female content creator (not yet subscribed) whose smiles belie the pain of her atypical past: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tnfBmu9HNXE

Joseph Omega

@Eric Linden - True. And I would also add the irony that it is the "West's" CUCKED "Patriarchy" that gave women permission to exploit the cracks and character flaws in MEN -- our evolutionary "weakness" to protect and provide for (ESPECIALLY persistently petulant) women (just as for children), even at our own peril.

Joseph Omega

Touché.

Trevor Burton

@Rae - As I said, I wholeheartedly agree, so I'm scarcely championing it. I was just supporting @Dakota Anderson's observation that men's needs are MUCH more easily satisfied ("Stepford Wives" like) than women's needs, and that "radical feminists", who created, and currently control the cultural zeitgeist, seem blissfully unaware of the bitter crop they have so petulantly sowed. Until SANE women start ACTIVELY policing their "Harpy sisters" (like Dr. Peterson says: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dL3Hrwg3A3w), men will be forced to defend themselves as best they could -- and they're pretty good at it when cornered, I'm sure you'll agree. Like I also said, this may not end well for any of us in the long run, but regardless of any lofty long-term psycho-social benefits that they undoubtedly may forgo, men (AND women) rarely weigh such consequences in the throes of sexual satisfaction.

Joseph Omega

@Joseph Yes I can agree with you that I am talking about the ideal and not the reality. However, I do not think we are any better than the radical feminists if we also create possibilities for biological women to be "replaced" by artificial means. What's the difference between championing sex toys in the place of physical intimacy with a man/woman and artificial wombs and AI girlfriends in place of real women? Yes these artificial substitutes help to meet the basic/biological human needs but we lose to beautiful complexities that humans bring to relationships and life. Like don't get me wrong, I can see appeal behind a gorgeous AI girlfriend that never ages, never denies you sex and always respects and listens to you but how will that AI girlfriend be able to raise well rounded humans that would not feel that they have been denied the motherly connection that they needed since birth? How would an agreeable machine that does not age with you challenge you in ways that pushes you to develop mentally as you go through difficult stages in life? My personal believe is that humans are not as easily replaceable as some people make it seem and that we shouldn't attempt to replace them either. But then again, I know that views are "ideals" I'm not always realistic 😅

Rae

@Mack T - It likely is heavily influenced by those channels I ACTUALLY subscribe to, like Kiera Lhotan and other ostensibly (or occasional) "red-pill" female content creators. 👍

Joseph Omega

@Robert Lindhé - And a Catch-22. 👍

Joseph Omega

I appreciate your links some times. If it’s the algorithm, then your YouTube algorithm feeds you very different stuff from mine

Mack T

A perfect storm, one might say. 🙏

Robert Lindhé

@Robert Lindhé - Still, the assignment of responsibility, however legitimate, does not change the behavior of a childish parent.

Joseph Omega

@Eric Linden - Holding on when the other has let go seems a little impractical (and more than a little pathetic) in the era of no-fault divorce.

Joseph Omega

MGTOW and 4B are pretty much the same thing in much of America and the Western world. 4B is actually a net positive if we want to save the gene pool and the culture.

Eric Linden

@Rae- @John has good advice. I would add that most high quality men had a father or good male role model before age 10. The ironic thing is that most men don’t even remember much before age 10.

Eric Linden

However, the cultural and societal aspect doesn’t take away the parental responsibility. 🙂

Robert Lindhé

Evolutionary psychology has created the cracks and character flaws in women. The main thing that has changed in the last century is the culture. Society and the culture today give women permission to give in to those cracks and flaws.

Eric Linden

@Robert Lindhé - Or the culture, seeing as there are so many.

Joseph Omega

@Joseph Omega - I should add that most women drop in and out of commitment and loyalty as emotions change. It takes two to Tango. It takes one to hold on. When neither is holding on, it has no chance.

Eric Linden

@Hyperion - You'd be AMAZED the extents to which Progressive Savior Barbies will go to virtue signal to their peer group, Chad or no Chad -- in fact the Chadless the better. Also, won't the courts take half of HER estate away in a divorce? If he has nothing to begin with ... all profit to him it seems.

Joseph Omega

I wonder how many men in such disposition would even consider marrying an American woman. Say, if a man is of lower social economic status, women would have no incentive to marry him. If he's a Chad or Tyrone, he'd just be a boy toy, not marriage material. If he is rich, frankly it's cheaper to just buy a green card via the EB-5 Immigrant Investor Program vs dealing with potential divorce.

Hyperion

Slightly off topic again, but my new favorite (non-ditzy) podcaster: On "Pretty Privilege": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8urUyBZhoxM On "Perfect 10's": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PevDn0DOk8A

Joseph Omega

That would require the western 4B feminist horde to have morality or consistency of standards, both of which I've found wanting.

Hyperion

The upbringing? 🙂

Robert Lindhé

@Robert Lindhé - Very conceivable, but which came first: The entitlement, the divorce or the self-centeredness?

Joseph Omega

@Eric Linden - A fine message to men that, unfortunately, most women are not likely to accede to. A Tango needs TWO.

Joseph Omega

@Hyperion - Indeed. I WAS referring to the new "Western" fad, not the "Eastern" fringe (ultra conservative) group. I wonder if the former would be driven to "slut-shame" her. Such strange times we live in.

Joseph Omega

@Hyperion - Still the pool of desperate men seeking "green cards" doesn't seem to be diminishing any time soon. 💁‍♂️

Joseph Omega

@Hyperion - And I wouldn't even call this tale "dystopian". 😅

Joseph Omega

I've heard that 4B movement in Korea is considered a fringe movement. It's not so much that they hate men as they are protesting the harsh economic realities of having and raising a family. I should think the wantoness of western women would make even the most lascivious Asian women gawk. Shame, fortunately, still exists in Asia.

Hyperion

I usually dont watch such long videos. Especially from theore rp rp creators. Be it tomassi, better batchelor or the guy in his car, etc (trying to get away from constant negative talk, coz even if this reality, its not helping my motivation to get out there. And i want to implement what ive learnt i eant to get out there) But this ine gripped me, first saw her on the whatever podcast. And i usually see the post GB interviews like omg was amazingly.. so seeing something else was interesting Perhaps there is hope for her yet. She still feels something.. That moment of realisation. Real real realisation. Oof. But she kight push through, havnt seen it all… But the body doesnt forget. Even if the mind can push it aside

Peter

Caveat emptor to anyone contemplating marriage to a western woman these days.

Hyperion

And yet these strident feminists wonder why men don't take them seriously. The ultimate form of protest from these supposed "brave and stunning", "I need no man" feminists is ... "we're going to stop having sex with men and weed ourselves out of the gene pool." Uhm ... okay. Guess that means fewer abortions, a double win for their opponents. Can't even make this stuff up.

Hyperion

Edited: “Alex Grace says he is extra judgemental towards single women” - ok, my thoughts

Peter

Marriage is fragile. It’s something you recommit to every day. The day you stop, it is over.

Eric Linden

Just a thought, maybe children of entitled divorced women is doing worse, due to those women being self-centred in general, and neglecting their children? Thoughts about this thesis?

Robert Lindhé

@Rae - I was under the impression that MOST women already have a PRETTY good idea (even intuitively) what a "high quality man" is NOT, but that the attraction to "bad boys" was just too great to resist. All else, it seems, is DISCIPLINE, is it not? 🤷‍♂️

Joseph Omega

@Hyperion - The gene pool was getting a bit crowded anyway -- a little VOLUNTARY culling to thin the herd certainly won't hurt the species too much. 👍

Joseph Omega

@Hyperion - I had to look up the meaning of "BBC" -- I guess I have another acronym to add to my list of "Western" women's reasons for overseas travel alongside "BBL's". 🙄

Joseph Omega

@Hyperion - In the past, the "oldest profession" had been restricted to very VERY few women whose job it was to satisfy the "sexual debt" of the majority of men becoming of age, and in advance of marriage to their low- or no-count brides. Outside of war or raids on neighboring villages, sluts and whores occupied an arguably necessary niche in society. That ALL women would be expected to gauge such behavior as a measure of "empowerment" may not have been evolutionarily expected. I wonder what the new 4B's think of her "liberation" from her "Patriarchal enslavement"? 🤔

Joseph Omega

@Trevor Burton - Personally, I prefer the "Hanlon's Razor" interpretation: "Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity." Like evolution, there only LOOKS like there's a conscious intelligence behind it.

Joseph Omega

Anyone who thinks this shift in society is organic and unassisted is naive. Society is deliberately engineered to every turn that it needs.

Trevor Burton

@warren beane - This is the layman's version that you can share: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTCL0CW1M2E

Joseph Omega

@Peter - Do you mean "Alexander Grace"? Or do you mean the abstract noun?

Joseph Omega

@Peter - You're the SECOND person here to express this fear. What exactly about his recent content makes you be so concerned? 🤔

Joseph Omega

More tales from my favorite Ditzyverse: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0AwsIDwxwVQ It's amazing how so many good men like Alexander (and very many women like Keira) are finally getting FED UP with women -- the "surprising" results of the recent US election could be just an indication of the "silent majority" losing their patience. Could the end of Feminist bullying be close at hand? It would be ironic if the loud-mouthed Harpies ended up VOLUNTARILY removing themselves from the gene-pool in 4B protest.

Joseph Omega

I am actually a bit concerned by how agrevated Alex seems. It his wife left him. I don’t want another sneako arc

Peter

Yay for Equality

Peter

“Alex Grace says he is extra judgemental towards single women” - ok, my thoughts I am real sorry to say if you are able to get 1000 matches on a dating app in one day and you are single something is up there …. Like theoretically I can comprehend a situation where 1000 different flavours of shit still taste like shit, you don’t want any of them . But if 99, 99% of your fellow human are shit to you, there is something up with you.

Peter

Really appreciate this content.

J

I know you are specifically asking Alexander but if I could just share this - I think a major, major quality women should look for in men is how they handle conflict. I've seen a lot of marriages start strong and end up in shambles and in many instances it's how the guy argues, if he avoids it completely, if he fights fair, if he acts like a child, if he is able to take accountability for his actions or if he just likes to blame. This can be discerned very early on in a relationship and it's a HUGE deal. It's going to come up constantly in any marriage. Obviously, this applies to both people in the marriage, but it's something I encourage my daughters to pay close attention to.

John

@Rae - I think you may be more referring to what SHOULD be (to which I wholeheartedly agree), rather than what IS -- because the PRIMARY thing men really require from women (euphemistically referred to as "intimacy") can be supplied by an AI-powered (and preferably animated) "doll". The technology is practically here already -- in engineering we call this a "work-around": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szSjIjXqpzc Read the revealing comments. Granted that "strong independent women" have long boasted that "they don't need men", and all they really need is a vibrator (a FAR simpler technology), men are starting to call their bluff, and they are starting to realize that, in reality, women (physically and technically challenged and socially dependent beings that they are) ACTUALLY require far FAR more, not as easily cybernetically replicated. Although I understand the need of some increasingly desperate women to try to "shame" men into desiring what they have ZERO interest in (like saying "men can't handle a strong woman"), the reality is much MUCH simpler, and becoming scarily close to fruition. As Feminism doubles down on their misguided demands to be increasingly "treated like men", all it may end up doing is pushing men to use their proven technical ingenuity to find solutions that do not involve them. Persistently stubborn and egotistical women should start to fear that men come up with a viable way to create "artificial wombs" (just as they found a way to "become women" themselves), then it may be game over. Feminism's strange game of CHICKEN with "The Patriarchy" may not end well for any of us.

Joseph Omega

How I decided to propose to my wife 1) When we met, and I was not making much money, she routinely suggested we just go on hikes, play board games, etc. She never complained. 2) When she met my parents and grandparents, she treated them with respect and kindness. Both of these were rare qualities, in my experience. We've been married for 22 years, and there have been some REALLY tough stretches, but I look back on some of the women I used to chase and - those would have been epic disasters. What Alexander says about conflicting libido is very true and very common. He has tons of great videos about how to increase your sexual attractiveness (and in my experience they work), but sometimes it just sucks, and it's not always fixable.

John

Divorce rate from women will lower when they'll lose most of their stuff and will only be able to see their kids every other weekend. 😘

Christophe Ruef

Alexander, I wish this could be shown on YouTube. All of this stuff is not going to change unless more people see it.

warren beane

Totally agree with what you're saying as far as high-quality women goes. That is always what I've been after. Because of everything that Alexander is talking about, that is really hard to find.

warren beane

Another very depressing video from BetterBachelor. Some OF creatrice from UK, in tears in the aftermath of a stunt of sleeping with 101 men in a day. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9UsePi7Dc-0 Just an addendum to my previous post about modern feminists are beyond salvation. Western women have gone completely insane.

Hyperion

Another blow to the sanctity of marriage in the States. Just saw this from Melanie King: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F7tpyCQP4IY Synopsys: two midwest moms went to Bahamas to escape from husband and children, slept with local staff, and lied about it as grape.

Hyperion

Modern women want a wedding but don't want to be wives. Their lived experience is that of handouts and instant gratifications. Their solution to adversity is demanding society to change rather than introspection and self-edification. The concept of compromise and commitment is as foreign to these misguided souls as Timbuktu. How do you explain virtue to an audience that has the attention span of a squirrel with the temper tantrum of an infant? Frankly, given the array of problems confronting our civilization, de-doctrinating feminists is low in my triage; I'm resolved to consider them a lost cause as they have already debased themselves beyond salvation. On a positive note, the strident feminists are shaving their heads and vowing to embrace the Korean 4B movement in their petulant protest of a Trump victory. That should make it easier for the marriage-minded men to weed out the untouchables.

Hyperion

Really good video as always Alex. I think most women have been conditioned to aspire to married but the problem is that that's as far as it goes. As soon as the beautiful wedding is achieved, there's not much else. Both men and women are not taught the true reality of marriage and the continuous work it takes to keep things afloat. To be honest, I still have fears around cheating and abuse when it comes to marriage but I am also aware that I can help myself by being wise about who I agree to marry and having good communication throughout every stage of the the relationship. Alex, I know your channel is largely centered around and focused towards men but I'd appreciate it if you could make more videos where you can help women discern what a good quality man is like, the characteristics he would have and so on. Maybe you can do a collab with your partner even 😊.

Rae

That's a twisted way of seeing all women. If you think a good quality woman is that replacable by a machine then you certainly should not be in a serious relationship/marriage. The things you are most likely alluding to are superficial which is sad. Men need women, and women need men to create a healthy society and that union is more favoured when both individuals are high quality people individually. If you're simple just talking about basic survival then yes, as a woman I can admit that yes, more men would survive on their own than women only because they have the genetic physical advantage.

Rae

Most people get it twisted when they think men need women more than women need men. A woman can very realistically be replaced by a doll, esp an AI doll. Try replacing a man with a doll

Dakota Anderson


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