PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Women who find their identity through a man
Added 2024-12-09 04:00:02 +0000 UTC
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I think Alexander covers it. Ultimately, they are more likely to cheat, because they have to have someone there. And yes, they will lose respect.
warren beane
2024-12-10 11:49:07 +0000 UTCHow would one categorize the relationships associated with the following CLASSIC archetypal stories? Are they ALL dysfunctional? - Romeo and Juliette/West Side Story/Love Story - The Notebook - Titanic - Helen of Troy - What Dreams May come - The Great Gatsby
Joseph Omega
2024-12-09 20:52:18 +0000 UTCI think it important to clarify similar terms -- at least it is for me: Independence: Self-sufficiency and autonomy in managing one’s own emotional and physical needs without reliance on others. Co-dependence: A relational dynamic where one person (the dependent) overly relies on another (the enabler), who reciprocates by excessively catering to or enabling the dependent’s needs, often to the detriment of their own. Interdependence: A healthy relationship dynamic where partners mutually support each other, maintaining personal autonomy while benefiting from each other’s strengths. Dependence: Relying on another person for support or care, which can vary from healthy dependence (such as in childhood or illness) to unhealthy forms (as in certain adult relationships). I guess we each much choose our own poison. 🤷♂️
Joseph Omega
2024-12-09 20:36:13 +0000 UTCMen and women both enjoy providing provision. An example of a man’s provision would be financial or advice or knowledge. A woman’s provision is doing something for the man or for the household or family. An example would be cooking dinner or decorating or organizing. A man in return wants respect. A woman in return wants acknowledgment and appreciation. The examples in this video are not the correct responses to provision. But we can fool ourselves into believing they are.
Eric Linden
2024-12-09 18:57:39 +0000 UTCAre there cases where the woman is too independent? If so, what effect will it have on the relationship?
Robert Lindhé
2024-12-09 15:24:09 +0000 UTCReally good video. Especially the part where Alexander nails down that women are ultimately turned off by men who cater to them and drop everything to please them. Or worse, who cause themselves actual financial, physical or mental harm in the process. As with any advice pertaining to men/women relationships - let her attraction to you be a side effect of how well you are leading yourself and living your life. Anything else you do is ultimately a mistake.
John
2024-12-09 15:23:35 +0000 UTCI’m been in a relationship where my partner acted completely dependent on me. At the time I thought it was attractive. After being in a relationship like that for 5+ years, we ended up codependent. Super unhealthy. Now if I get the slightest feeling that is how the woman is I have like a panic attack and run for the hills. I don’t want to deal with that ever again.
J
2024-12-09 14:36:45 +0000 UTCA response is something that take time a reaction is instant, human nature is to react and most people don’t practice being able to respond. So it’s the reaction that causes the irreparable damage.
J
2024-12-09 14:21:49 +0000 UTCRelationships are fragile. Often human nature leads one to respond or react in a way that causes irreparable damage.
Eric Linden
2024-12-09 06:56:25 +0000 UTCDependency does not equal loyalty.
Eric Linden
2024-12-09 06:47:27 +0000 UTCThe woman who is dependent on her man may attach herself to another man if her first man is unavailable.
Lioninwinter
2024-12-09 05:20:06 +0000 UTC
