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PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Why don't women share their money with men?

PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Why don't women share their money with men?

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I think the claim he's making is that the girl goes through puberty at a younger age so that she can be 'married off' (or whatever the pre-civilization equivalent was) earlier and thus escape the abuse earlier. But I'm not 100% sure, I'm also a bit confused.

voskresenie

What do you mean by your second sentence?

Arthur Eagle

I liked this one. There were many times when I was younger, and had much lower confidence - where I would get rejected and I would immediately attribute it to not being handsome enough or ripped, whatever. It made me angry and cynical, especially when it came to conversations about personality, emotional connection, etc. It was also really confusing because guys that I felt were not that great looking would be doing just fine. I realize it's still a very loaded conversation and still feels extremely unfair to many guys, but at least in my experience, it was all about my self image. I believe women are extremely susceptible to how a guy presents himself, and we underestimate the impact of confidence in men on women. That's why a guy can be a total D-Bag and clown, but if he's confident, a woman will go along with him while other men will watch from the sidelines frustrated and confused. I think it's especially hard too for smart, analytical or overly analytical guys. These type of men don't feel like being confident about things they don't understand or aren't experienced in. Where I am now at mid 40s is, I'm very confident in myself in specific areas. I feel like I could approach virtually any woman and have a conversation, I am also way more picky about what women I spend any time speaking with.

John

@Lilac bush - The offspring of the 30% with 1 or 2 children and the 30% with 3 or more are free to procreate among each other, so the genes of those 60% will continue to circulate among the population -- they will not be dying out.

Joseph Omega

@Eric Linden - Barring the collapse of infrastructure and economies with the inevitable decent into barbarism and widespread chaos (runaway effects similar to what is predicted for the greenhouse effect), the estimated period of extinction may be much MUCH sooner: https://chatgpt.com/share/6758ffd1-39cc-800a-a769-b115f27d287c

Joseph Omega

@Eric Linden - You are right -- but women DO tend to wake up earlier, in my experience.

Joseph Omega

@Peter & @Joseph Omega - MGTOW for men and the 4B movement for women are really the same thing, and I'm not too worried about either. There will always be some people that want to reproduce. Even if replacement rate was as low as 10%, we would have many centuries to go before we went extinct. It's kinda like worrying about global warming killing us all 100,000 years from now.

Eric Linden

@Joseph Omega - I disagree with a couple. The big one is #13 - Every woman I've been with can fall asleep easily, but I can't. And I'm always tired.

Eric Linden

When a girl experience chronic childhood abuse she is likely to enter puberty earlier. So our evolution knows a woman can trade reproduction for resources. The same is not true for boys, when a boy is abused he is more likely to turn into criminal, meaning he is so hopeless he might as well go with the most risky strategy.

Anonymous Person

Not exactly on the current topic, but I just thought I'd share this video ("15 Things Women Secretly Envy About Men"): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KgmSKwWLzmQ His list is SOOO true!

Joseph Omega

@Dakota Anderson - Sorry, but I forgot to add the link I referenced last: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i4gKEck2pVs

Joseph Omega

Reproduction is women job. Only 60% of men are selected to procreate. 30% with 1 or 2 children and 30% with 3 or more. So growth is dependent on 30 percent of men. The rest are dying anyways.

Lilac bush

The video is an hours long.

Peter

@ eric if mgtow s the future of alex, despite having a wife and daughter…. That would seem like caving to the mob. Its still valuable to recognise, try try again is an unproductive attitude. Keep making same mistake. Aproach and opinion should evolve, Im curious to see where this goes

Peter

@Joseph Omega you are absolutely right, great point brother. It's probably for the best though, humanity is propelled forward by women rewarding the most successful men with babies and companionship. I guess the worst is when women reward the violent and criminal instead.

Dakota Anderson

@Dakota Anderson - Well, regardless of how much money the average man can extract from those untapped resources, Hypergamy will ALWAYS choose the TOP 10% of the herd -- the BILLIONAIRES and TRILLIONAIRES rather than the mere millionaires. Besides, like another popular attribute, isn't it not the SIZE of your bank account that matters, but how you USE it? This MAY be what @Eric Linen was more alluding to. PS. The YouTube algorithm push SO MANY of these video now to me about the state of play in China -- the pursuit of more and more money to feed the instatiable female hypergamous thirst over there seems to have led to the most ludicrous of situations ... coming to a city near you.

Joseph Omega

@Peter - Certainly many of the titles are.

Joseph Omega

I noticed too the content is a lot more „rage baity“

Peter

Same happened to me in a dire financial place. Id have a platonic friend iver and be a good host and offer pizza even if it was my LAST cash and she always accepted and when i finally saud friends don’t ket thier friends self harm on their account, i was told I offered .. my problem She wasn’t wrong. But fir my conscience I would never allow a friend to spend hes last, maybe rent money on me…. I don’t need to be part of the self harm

Peter

OF in that same vein is wild. To creator gets 43 million a year. Wild

Peter

@John McGuinness - Your story reminds us all that no matter how bad we have it, someone else has it worse. The good news: it was 13 years ago, you survived, she didn’t totally break you, and the bitterness decreases with each passing year. Your wounds are deep, but they weren’t fatal. We are proud of you.

Eric Linden

Bro pay attention to the context. You can't project your own values on to someone else. I made a post about men in the gym trying to get buff to get women. Somehow you are saying I lost the plot because something about fulfillment. How Would You Have Felt If You Hadn't Eaten Breakfast?

Dakota Anderson

@Dakota Anderson - You are missing the point entirely. You seem to think the goal is getting a woman, and the way to get the woman is money. That was my goal when I was young and misguided. The goal is now fulfillment. Not happiness, which is fleeting. And not a woman or money. Always strive for fulfillment, and reevaluate how to get it constantly. You may have the right idea about how to achieve that for you. It may work for lots of guys. For me, it’s not money or muscles. It’s integrity and focusing on your true goal.

Eric Linden

Your're missing the point Steven. The point is that most men don't understand women and prioritize the wrong things. A guy working at McDonald's thinks getting a gym membership will help find his wife. I'm just saying that you need to really introspect on what will get results and most of the time, its not pushing weight or doing physical activity. It's improving your situation in life and learning how to socialize like a charming and/or humorous person that is magnanimous and alluring

Dakota Anderson

Thanks for sharing brother. Stories like yours are a gem. Some men like to feel sorry for themselves when they have achieved nothing and get no results but men like you, men of excellence that show us how fickle women can be, provide a true yard stick of what to expect from women when things go south even among exceptional men.

Dakota Anderson

common misconception. There absolutely is. The untapped potential of the resources and tech we have available make it very reasonable goal in actuality

Dakota Anderson

There may be something to this but that's rough if true. How did we get to this point. Unfortunately 1. Working 2. Working 3. Working Doesn't garuntee anything when based on other people, market conditions, luck etc. Also there's probably a significant tradeoff or loss going on when a person does nothing but work.

Steven

Divorce does not qualify women to unemployment, maybe it should ;-)

Lilac bush

@Dakota Anderson - Unfortunately there isn't enough money in the world for every man to become a millionaire -- at least in today's dollars.

Joseph Omega

@J - The upending of a cherished notion is often a little painful. He'll recover.

Joseph Omega

@Eric Linden - By definition, if MGTOW is the future, then the species probably has none.

Joseph Omega

I have never actually seen evidence karma exists, nor am I inclined to believe in gods just judgment. But it sure would be comforting to know explotoiters and predators, especially ESPECIALLY!!!! Orf the vulnerable, to receive their dew justice. Male and female and anything between. Its subhuman behavior

Peter

That’s horrific And You hear these stories way too often. Way too often….

Peter

Last wife divorced me 2 years after a motorcycle accident that left me brain injured and unable to work. Prior to that I was making 240K a year as a senior electrical designer building mineral processing plants. Was I broke? NO, I was making 90K a year on TAC insurance, BUT I was making 40K less than she was. It didnt matter that I buiilt her a house close to her daughter, let her furnish and decorate it as she wanted. I bought her a 6 foot baby grand piano, co signed the lease on her car, and spent another 60K on the house after it was built. NONE of that mattered. She bailed, sueing me for half the house she didnt save a SINGLE DOLLAR for. She had her bills, and I had mine, and the mortgage, well that was a ME bill. Thanks to my lawyer I got 70% of the house, but it hurt. That was 13 years ago, and it still hurts.

John McGuinness

There are always exceptions to every generalization. I was speaking from a framework of a male expending efforts in the long term pursuit of females and how most men get it wrong. The laymen spends his time: 1. Working 2. Working Out 3. Hobbies What I'm saying, If you want a woman in your life, you should change it to: 1. Working 2. Working 3. Working until you are a millionaire. Then you focus on Working out and hobbies. Source: Am a millionaire

Dakota Anderson

I'm just gonna say it. Women get paid way too much. The way money is distributed these days is absurd imo. Based more on position than actual work.

Steven

Maybe they feel becoming healthier and stronger is more important than what money brings to their life in general. Let's say they are optimising for female retention though, is money a better metric than muscles? What kind of relationship does a man have with a woman when he has money vs muscles. What kind of women are attracted to money vs muscles. Maybe they are pursuing the kind of relationship they genuinely want. Maybe their body is more important than their job. Maybe they're looking for a woman who aligns with them.

Steven

@Lilac bush - Thanks! I agree with BB that there is a new attitude, but I don't think he is 'bashing' it. Just noticing and acknowledging it. AG's content has evolved. In the beginning it was called "Red Pill Interviews," was focused on pick up and game, and used interviews with young women and Red Pill Reddit for much of the content. AG had a long collaboration with Matt, a short collaboration with Wheat Waffles, and explored polyamory and the black pill. The focus on evolutionary psychology and Ayn Rand has not changed. AG has evolved with his audience for the most part. I think the content is better than ever. Maybe MGTOW is the future. I like the fact that the content is less pick up, and more into relationships and parenting.

Eric Linden

Have you ever seen a guy decide to sell his house and get an apartment? Or sell his luxury car because he actually preferred the lower priced model? Nothing else changes in the man’s life; or he might even move up in income or net worth. Many women have a big problem with this.

Eric Linden

Youtuber & 'Pick Up Coach' Alexander Grace: I'm done with these b-tches. https://youtu.be/432z70_G9po

Lilac bush

How about a link. Unlike YouTube, links work here on Patreon.

Eric Linden

Men are better able to put aside their instincts. Women only need the slightest push to totally give in to them.

Eric Linden

Better bachelor has a video about you trashing your new attitude. Also who ever invite the other person is who pay for the meal. Men are mean and won’t help another men so it men problem.

Lilac bush

It reminds me of an experience I had when I was 18. I was dating someone my age, at college. She had a part time job making decent money, so did I. Every Friday night, I would take her out to dinner, to a movie - this was the late 90s so, I probably spent close to a hundred each time. She, meanwhile, was saving, paying off her car, etc. Maybe spent $30 on me for Valentines. One night she started grilling me on how much I had been saving (?) and what were my financial goals. I said "I spend my money on you!" and she said "Well that's your decision." We broke up soon afterwards. She wasn't wrong about that...and guys, please don't be like me, start managing your finances, and start investing as soon as you can. If you shower her with money, she will let you spend yourself into oblivion and then let you take full responsibility. Women aren't banks. You don't earn interest on what you give to them.

John

Alexander, is everything okay? I mean I still like your content but this seems like something isn’t going well for you bud.

J

When I go to the Gym and see so many men working out, honing peak athletic or body building aesthetics I always face palm. How many of those men are millionaires? It is a profound lack of understanding of women's psychology to spend valuable time in the gym working out to impress girls when in reality its such a small factor in what it takes to get and maintain a woman. Get out of the gym and build a business, get a 2nd job or learn a hobby like Poker because your ROI in there is terrible for women if you aren't a millionaire already.

Dakota Anderson

So many layers of why this world makes you so sick.

Brad Dunn

@Eric Linden - And THOSE women should NOT be "shamed"? 💁‍♂️ Should a man be "shamed" for divorcing a woman who, through no fault of her own, becomes less physically attractive (like through accident, illness or old age)? In addition, BOTH sexes are naturally "Hypergamous", but to DIFFERENT things -- women to "hard power" traits (like physical strength, status, wealth, etc.), and men to "soft power" traits (like kindness, loyalty, compassion, etc.). Again: https://chatgpt.com/share/671ffacc-8aac-800a-9e19-f7894ccb993a Scroll to the very end for a summary conclusion. Finally, it seems that women (AND men) SHOULD be "shamed" when their "Hypergamous" choices for a relationship are NOT based on the other's POTENTIAL. Back to the RESPONSIBLE version of the "boat and island" analogy. Women are neither children nor butterflies.

Joseph Omega

Many women can't fight their instincts. They will have many conversations through dating, courtship, marriage; they know when college is over, her career will pay more than his. Then sometime later, after the careers take off, other women get in her ear and she just can't fight it.

Eric Linden


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