Is eating đ± bad?
Added 2023-01-03 13:32:27 +0000 UTCThis is a controversial topic that many people donât know what theyâre talking about when they choose to discuss or theyâre not speaking from a mature or experienced standpoint before sharing their advice / opinion.
Most men who speak about it, condemn the act and others disregard it entirely, & never share their thoughts on it.
But for men with a small đ, it may be the only way to ever make a woman đŠ .
Its not an act I have to engage in but I personally donât think thereâs anything wrong with eating đ±.
A man can be dominant and still eat đ±.
But thereâs a right and wrong attitude to have when performing the act, and Iâll explain what I mean by that.
When does size matter?
If you want to âf*ckâ a girl, size matters
If you want to âmake loveâ size doesnât matter because at that point itâs more about how emotionally invested she is into you.
As a man with a small d*ck, itâs important to build an emotional connection with women you view as potential long term relationship material, in order to reduce the relevance of your size.
If youâre a man with a small đ, and you use oral sex to make up for your lack of size, thatâs fine.
But never make it obvious that youâre doing it specifically to make up for your shortcomings. Thatâs the wrong attitude to have.
This screams desperation, and youâll look like a try-hard.
And thatâll be interpreted by her as you seeking her validation, which makes you subservient or itâll make her feel sorry for you, because she knows that youâre small and youâre trying everything you can to please her.
When she feels this way, you can eat her đ± for 5 hours and she still wonât đŠ and thatâs because for women, Pity --> Loss of arousal.
Plus, thereâs nothing more embarrassing than failing to make her cum with both your đ and your tongue.
You have to act like itâs something you enjoy doing.
Make her feel like you eat her đ± for your own pleasure and arousal, not hers. This is the right attitude to have.
Always create a frame where she thinks your pleasure is prioritised.
That way, if she doesnât đŠ from you eating her out, it wouldnât matter because that wasnât what you were trying to achieve to begin with, you were doing it for you.
You donât want to be the guy who đŠ, and then starts eating her out right after, to make up for đŠing prematurely.
If you đŠ before her, do not go down on her to make up for it! Sheâll get another chance next time you have sex with her.
Wash your balls and call it a night.
Iâm summary, when going down on her, do it from a position of power, rather than from a position of trying to win her over by your amazing tongue.