Lately, I've been reflecting on a concept that feels especially relevant today—instant gratification. It’s a force that seems to be shaping how we approach our goals, our creativity, and even our sense of fulfilment.
It’s easy to look at someone who appears to have achieved overnight success and feel like you’re falling behind, like maybe you’re missing some secret shortcut. But the reality is, there are no shortcuts. I’ve been at this for over a decade, and I can tell you that the people who truly succeed, who really find fulfilment, are the ones willing to stick with something long before it pays off.
When I hit 30,000 followers on Instagram, I remember thinking, “Wow, this is so many people.” Then it was 40,000. Then 85,000. Each of these milestones felt huge in the moment, but once the moment passed, the numbers themselves started to mean less. I’ve played the big festivals and venues, from EDC to Red Rocks, and yet those experiences, while amazing, are fleeting. They come and go, and the excitement they bring fades.
Every time you reach a goal, your expectations shift. The bar gets set higher, and suddenly what once felt impossible is just another checkbox. It’s a moving target.
That’s why I think the real key is learning to love the process. The long nights, the creative breakthroughs, the quiet moments where it’s just you and the music. It’s about embracing the work, because the work is where the real growth happens.
So if you’re just starting out, or even if you’re deep into your journey, remember this: the milestones are just markers. They’re not the destination. The real prize is the process itself, the act of creating, the pursuit of something meaningful—even if it’s messy, even if it’s uncertain.
It’s not just about getting there. It’s about finding fulfilment in the journey.
Matthew
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