The History of Horniness
Added 2024-07-18 21:00:06 +0000 UTCTake a drink every time I say 'horned up' this episode.
In a vast pivot from last week's episode, today we are talking about all things HORNY! I was researching women's libido and the differences in it from men's libido which led to an entire episode about the history of our narratives around sex. We tend to view sex as shameful and dangerous...but did we always? What factors led to us thinking this? And are men always more horny than women? How can women increase their libido and what makes it tick?
Of course, too, I talk at the end about our "horniest" celebrities haha.
Let me know your thoughts on this, and apologies in advance for making anyone uncomfortable by saying the word "horny" so much and apologies to my parents for doing an episode on this at all hahaha.
0:00 Intro and rogue tea
8:14 Narratives we have around sex
15:00 To women, food is like sex
17:16 When was sex first demonized and viewed as shameful?
21:03 Purity culture
24:40 Laws passed dealing with sexual shame
35:26 How sex being shameful hurts us
37:29 How different are men and women when it comes to sex?
40:18 How to be hornier!!
55:40 Horny celebs
Comments
Shannon thank you so much for the advil/glass of water tip! I couldn’t get my partner to drink water if he was paid to but I told him about the advil instructions last night and just saw him guzzle a glass of water after taking a CBD gummy. LOL but also how can I thank you enough? 😂🙏🤪
Hannah
2024-07-24 22:30:32 +0000 UTCWomen can't win.
Rose Martine
2024-07-23 22:51:34 +0000 UTCCan you do a episode on kamala harris? I wonder if she had blind items it would be super interesting!! Ik she dated in Hollywood as well.
Jessica Oliveros
2024-07-23 19:43:25 +0000 UTCOmg the not wanting to flirt with your partner bc it might lead to something you didn’t sign up for part is so real!!! Feels good to know I’m not alone
Christine Porter
2024-07-23 17:31:10 +0000 UTCFeeling so seen in the discussion about our internalized fear of giving dudes blue balls and not wanting to provoke my long time partner in fear of needing to “finish the job” - this is something that is not talked about and is sooo real.
Sophie Cowie
2024-07-23 14:48:15 +0000 UTCwhat are we
Savannah Martin
2024-07-23 01:05:03 +0000 UTCI'm really enjoying these interesting topics for episodes. And your stories kill me. A few years ago my friend told me about a man coming up to her at a gas station and asking to take pics of her feet for his frat pledge week. I was like umm no girl he had a foot fetish. She had no idea. After I said that she was like now that you say that, he did look like he was about 40 so how was it for a frat? Lmao 💀 I know it was a slip of the tongue, but I would agree with the statement that marriage before sex is wrong 😂
Jennifer Lake
2024-07-22 09:12:29 +0000 UTCI studied water management at university and my lecturer told me that men are indirectly consuming oestrogen because so many women are on birth control now that there are just overall higher levels of it in our waste products and during water treatment the oestrogen is too small the be caught by modern water treatment so when men drink it water they are essentially micro dosing on oestrogen over long periods of time. It’s also massively affected fish in areas where waste water is discharged into water bodies.
Scarl
2024-07-21 11:20:43 +0000 UTCi’m also dying at your foot guy story. i TOO have fucked up feet (bunions and flat feet and so many calluses 🤪) and when i’m on feeld sometimes guys will be like “i’m sure you have beautiful feet” and i never answer cause i don’t want to tell them the bad news </3
Savannah Martin
2024-07-21 03:08:45 +0000 UTCok yeah i LOVED this episode i’ve always felt like the horniest girl alive like ever since puberty i’ve had a super high sex drive and it’s stayed that way ever since lol even after birth control and antidepressants IT’S NEVER SLOWING DOWN I GUESS! i used to feel weird especially when i had a higher sex drive than previous boyfriends but now i’m single and slutting it up most nights and it’s so much fun. i’m proud 2 be horny <3
Savannah Martin
2024-07-21 02:58:13 +0000 UTClol Im 9 months pregnant and Im pretty sure my baby has heard your voice more than my own. Baby is a floozy 4 sho
Rachel
2024-07-20 14:08:32 +0000 UTCPeople who like her too girl. You just really like talking about Taylor swift apparently lmao. Love the podcast just got a bit of a chuckle out of that
Rachel Smith
2024-07-20 07:46:39 +0000 UTCyes!!! brainstorming ideas for the next gen of humans
Shannon McNamara
2024-07-19 22:00:39 +0000 UTCplastic maxxing!
Shannon McNamara
2024-07-19 22:00:05 +0000 UTCListening to how church camp portrayed women... Makes me glad my mom didn't let me go because she didn't trust the Catholic Church 😂
Problematic Bestie
2024-07-19 20:06:54 +0000 UTCgreat episode 🫶🏼🫶🏼✨
Traumachica
2024-07-19 17:31:23 +0000 UTCNo Shannon!!!- literally used to daydream about being able to use my finger to pee as a kid on long road trips. My child brain was like I can just stick my finger out the window 😆 it’s a great idea - also for camping
Jess Thomas
2024-07-19 15:15:58 +0000 UTCLove this episode, Shannon! Thanks for always doing such interesting and unique episodes.
Kehly
2024-07-19 14:44:01 +0000 UTCOh and the foot fetish thing—i think its such an innocent thing but i guess its the fetish part, like its the obsessiveness, why was he thinking about your feet for three months? Thats the odd part. Personally, my first sexual experience was with a foot guy (my age!!) and it was totally fine! But he’s not asking for feet vids years later bc he’s not a freak…idk man
Alyssa Canova
2024-07-19 14:06:16 +0000 UTCThis episode made me so grateful for my libido 🫶🏻 shout out to suckin and fuckin
Alyssa Canova
2024-07-19 14:00:12 +0000 UTCJohn Mayer does what 😱 Love your Rob story 🦶🏻
Victoria
2024-07-19 12:53:47 +0000 UTCThank you for blessing us with these interesting episodes 🫶
Giuliette
2024-07-19 08:35:07 +0000 UTCThe episode ended so abruptly I was scared I was getting a phone call during my chill time 😂
Kate Hofschield
2024-07-19 03:23:42 +0000 UTCNooo the tampon I’m sorry hahah. “I have micro plastics in me” girl that’s macro plastic 😂
Kayleigh
2024-07-19 02:48:26 +0000 UTCthis was so interesting!
lola
2024-07-19 01:09:34 +0000 UTC😂😂😂😂 perfect topic!!
LadySwampWitchGivsNeauFux
2024-07-19 01:01:40 +0000 UTCSav u seem like my kinda ppl
elg
2024-07-18 21:34:04 +0000 UTCthis episode is made for me thank you shannon
Savannah Martin
2024-07-18 21:04:19 +0000 UTC
