CarissaExplainsNothing

Telling on Myself

Added 2023-12-19 00:28:14 +0000 UTC

Yes, I had an “Onlyfriends.” No, I do not anymore.

Why the hell am I telling you this now?! Because although I used a pseudonym, kept that little side hustle separate from my main socials, and was prepared for the inevitable leaking of pictures… I was not prepared for the way my stalker accessed and used my images.

To be fair, most of my OF was pretty tame compared to a lot of what’s out there. I’m not ashamed at all and am actually proud that I would do what I need to do to take care of myself and my kid. I mean, welcome to the real world as it is right now… this is the reality for a lot of single moms these days.

I’m talking about this now because my stalker has destroyed my privacy and sense of safety. The more things (like my past OF) are private, the more opportunity for the stalker to exploit that information.

So there it is. That existed and now it doesn’t and I’m not ashamed. The only person who should be ashamed is the one who would publicly say they are “sex positive” while privately exploiting me and others. Fuck that shit.

I’ve been moving all of my favorite 🌶️ pictures to a separate Patreon account and am not publicly promoting it. Only people here will know about it, so if you hear otherwise… let me know.

❤️❤️❤️

Also, just because I need to brag about something I was never able to before… I started from zero with my OF and didn’t use my main social media to promote it. But even so I hit the top 5% of OF creators within the first two months. So I guess I was good at it! 😂😂😂